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Adolescent psychologist. Conflict between a teenager and his parents

Feb. 10, 2021, 3:56 a.m.

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Each mom and dad faced a rather difficult period of life, namely the adolescence of their children. Yesterday, a sweet, calm, charming child turns into an uncontrollable, emotional bomb. He loses the desire to learn, a number of indignation and resentment flies to any request in response

All changes in behavior are most often associated with the so-called hormonal changes. At least, parents explain this only by physiological processes. But here we are also talking about a change in thinking, the emergence of new feelings and desires, the formation of the character of a future full-fledged member of society. It is at this age that you need to try with all your might not to become an enemy for your child.

Conflict between a teenager and his parents

The interests of children and adults are very different. Parents ask for help around the house, study well, play sports, dance, "be the child of the best friend", etc.   But the teenager wants something completely different, for example, to communicate more with peers, try the first kiss, learn what love is, adventure - that is, to feel this world yourself.

Therefore, any act or request, the teenager begins to perceive with hostility. Children at this age   it seems that the whole world is against them and   no one understands this pain and suffering. This is where the misunderstanding in the family comes in and this is the reason to turn to a psychologist. It is desirable that this be a professional who deals with cases with teenagers.

As of who is this teenage psychologist?

A grown-up psychologist is a person who specializes in working with children "aged" from 12 to 18 years. He helps to find the root of the problem and directs all efforts to solve it and thus maintain good relations of those who turn to him

Reasons to contact a teenage psychologist

Practically, not the children themselves always go to the psychologist, but their parents, who are simply tired of being powerless. And the appeals most often concern the following:

  • Unswing behavioral changes
  • Suse mood
  • A singly deterioration in school performance
  • The teenager's closed-ups
  • Phobias, fear, complexes
  • Constant quarrels with parents, short temper, aggressiveness
  • Phone addictions
  • Stress (someone's death, divorce, assault, etc.).
  • drugs

Of course, these are not all reasons. And the psychologist is faced with the task of becoming a kind of friend for a teenager to want to share what is in his soul. Unfortunately, mom or dad is not always able to be such friends.

Specialist should reach out to the child in such a way as to renew the missing connection between the teenager and the parents, be a mediator, trying to remove all awkwardness and smooth out the sharp corners to help the family exhaust the conflict.

The first meeting is usually introductory. The psychologist tells how the consultations will take place, looks closely at the communication of those who turned to him, calls the price. He also gives basic tests, questionnaires, techniques that will help him get to know the teenager better in order to establish contact faster in the future.

What to expect

Each mom and dad faced a rather difficult period of life, namely the adolescence of their children. Yesterday, a sweet, calm, charming child turns into an uncontrollable, emotional bomb. He loses the desire to learn, a number of indignation and resentment flies to any request in response

All changes in behavior are most often associated with the so-called hormonal changes. At least, parents explain this only by physiological processes. But here we are also talking about a change in thinking, the emergence of new feelings and desires, the formation of the character of a future full-fledged member of society. It is at this age that you need to try with all your might not to become an enemy for your child.

Conflict between a teenager and his parents

The interests of children and adults are very different. Parents ask for help around the house, study well, play sports, dance, "be the child of the best friend", etc.   But the teenager wants something completely different, for example, to communicate more with peers, try the first kiss, learn what love is, adventure - that is, to feel this world yourself.

Therefore, any act or request, the teenager begins to perceive with hostility. Children at this age   it seems that the whole world is against them and   no one understands this pain and suffering. This is where the misunderstanding in the family comes in and this is the reason to turn to a psychologist. It is desirable that this be a professional who deals with cases with teenagers.

As of who is this teenage psychologist?

A grown-up psychologist is a person who specializes in working with children "aged" from 12 to 18 years. He helps to find the root of the problem and directs all efforts to solve it and thus maintain good relations of those who turn to him

Reasons to contact a teenage psychologist

Practically, not the children themselves always go to the psychologist, but their parents, who are simply tired of being powerless. And the appeals most often concern the following:

  • Unswing behavioral changes
  • Suse mood
  • A singly deterioration in school performance
  • The teenager's closed-ups
  • Phobias, fear, complexes
  • Constant quarrels with parents, short temper, aggressiveness
  • Phone addictions
  • Stress (someone's death, divorce, assault, etc.).
  • drugs

Of course, these are not all reasons. And the psychologist is faced with the task of becoming a kind of friend for a teenager to want to share what is in his soul. Unfortunately, mom or dad is not always able to be such friends.

Specialist should reach out to the child in such a way as to renew the missing connection between the teenager and the parents, be a mediator, trying to remove all awkwardness and smooth out the sharp corners to help the family exhaust the conflict.

The first meeting is usually introductory. The psychologist tells how the consultations will take place, looks closely at the communication of those who turned to him, calls the price. He also gives basic tests, questionnaires, techniques that will help him get to know the teenager better in order to establish contact faster in the future.

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